Love, Life, Relationships ....

It's hard to love somebody. It's hard to be in a relationship. I know being in one takes a lot of hard work. Knowing your friends, family, each other takes work. As I look at myself being in a relationship I know that it can be hard. It takes commitment, trust, understanding. It takes one person to open up to another person.
I look at the next stage in my relationship and yes I may be scared, but I want to take that commitment and that covenant God gave us. For those who have been married, I try not to judge, but then I wonder why has there marriage failed. There is no perfect relationship and I am not a marriage expert. I also asked myself are they committed to each other? Do they speak the right love language to each other? If you don't learn what commitment is in a relationship how are you gonna know what it is when you get married? Being married is a commitment to God. Even if you don't have kids when your married, you are still committed to your wife. You made a binding commitment to God and to your wife to be faithful, to be with her till death do us part. To know that you are committed to God first, should scare a lot of people. I wonder do they ever think about that? When you are committed to God, he will make sure that when you do something wrong, he will correct you. Even when times are hard, you are to be committed to working out whatever is wrong in your relationship. You have to be willing to fight for that someone that you love.

At this time in my life.

I never thought my life would change so drastically. I grew up. I learned responsibility. I see things in a different light. I cant be all fun and games. Sometimes you have to clean the house or work whether you don't want too. Be thankful for the things because God gave it to you.We have to treat our body as a temple because it is not our own. We don't know what tommorow brings so treasure every moment.

The Man I Love.

Im thankful to God to give me a man thats so wonderful. He supports me no matter what. He backs me up with whatever I do. Any situation we've encountered he's there and willing to encounter it. He's the most wonderful man and i know God destined me to be with him. I'm thankful that he's learning about life along with me. With whatever we go through in life, we'll always have each other and God.

Praying with Each Other

Jesus said " For where two or three are gather together as my followers, I am there among them." - Matthew 18: 20

Sometimes we think, it may not be important to pray as a couple, but it is. When you pray together, you hear each other's thoughts and as you hear those thoughts you give it to God. Praying together is important spiritually and emotionally. I know that personally, I need to practice that more with my boyfriend.

Reading a Devotional.

When you read a devotional, you learn more about yourself and about what God wants to say in your life. It is very inspiring and very rewarding.

Be a Cheerleader.

Me and my boyfriend have started a devotional. I've learn to be a cheerleader and be an encourager to him. No matter what were going through cheer him on. With my family, i have to cheer them on as well.

Be Thankful.

I've learned that in whatever situation we have to be thankful to God. He is the one that gives us strength and gives us a new day. Whatever were going through, he is right there beside us leading us. Maybe the situation that were in is something that God gives us to see something that we've never seen before. Sometimes it's a blessing in disguise, but whatever it is you go through be thankful.