It's hard to love somebody. It's hard to be in a relationship. I know being in one takes a lot of hard work. Knowing your friends, family, each other takes work. As I look at myself being in a relationship I know that it can be hard. It takes commitment, trust, understanding. It takes one person to open up to another person.
I look at the next stage in my relationship and yes I may be scared, but I want to take that commitment and that covenant God gave us. For those who have been married, I try not to judge, but then I wonder why has there marriage failed. There is no perfect relationship and I am not a marriage expert. I also asked myself are they committed to each other? Do they speak the right love language to each other? If you don't learn what commitment is in a relationship how are you gonna know what it is when you get married? Being married is a commitment to God. Even if you don't have kids when your married, you are still committed to your wife. You made a binding commitment to God and to your wife to be faithful, to be with her till death do us part. To know that you are committed to God first, should scare a lot of people. I wonder do they ever think about that? When you are committed to God, he will make sure that when you do something wrong, he will correct you. Even when times are hard, you are to be committed to working out whatever is wrong in your relationship. You have to be willing to fight for that someone that you love.
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